Did I Ever Really Have Control? It seems I’ve lost control of my life, or if I’m honest, did I ever really  have control? When we were younger, we planned things out. Carefully. Methodically. If you’ve been following my blog, you know that I am a bit of a spreadsheet lady. A spreadsheet for choosing a new house.A four–page spreadsheet for holiday open houses.A spreadsheet for choosing a cat—just kidding. Our cats chose us. We were merely staff. Still, I’m nowhere near Ernest

Discover gratitude in daily chores and aging challenges. Embrace gratitude as it transforms life's creaks into appreciation and joy.

Even when your body disagrees, you can choose to be happy. if you pay attention to the better things - butterflies, birds, and bright days.

It all started on a Friday, Oct 24. It felt like Friday the 13th. Because we’d installed custom shelving in five of our closets, the plan was simple: unpack those closets, move the shelves to the new apartment, and take it from there. That was the plan. Once the movers arrived, though, they decided to be extra efficient—and started packing everything. The fellow handling the living and dining rooms was quite thoughtful. When he saw our cabinet of wine glasses, he asked if we’

Planning for the end isn’t easy—or tidy. From wills to Facebook ghosts, here’s a humorous look at life’s loose ends and digital afterlife.

On my way to the grocery store last night, a rainbow stretched across the sky. Without thinking, I started humming, “ I can see clearly now, the rain is gone .”  It felt like the universe had cued the rainbow just for me. Rainbows are like that—quiet little reminders that storms do pass, and something beautiful can follow. Life at any age hands us cloudy days, but there’s always a rainbow hiding somewhere. It had been a bad day. I just resigned from an organization I had pour

Trying to meet daily water intake goals? Here’s a humorous look at staying hydrated, the 8 glasses a day myth, and why I feel like I’m sloshing

Physical therapy exercises can feel like pure torture. Here’s a humorous look at boring rehab routines, including the hated bridges, and possible ways to make it more tolerable.

A humorous look at the quirks and hassles of filling out endless medical forms and how they impact our lives.

Explore why the claim "is everyone happiest in the morning" might be bull-hockey. See why one person thinks the study that triggered these claims might be a bit flawed.

Explore the joy of reading with 'So Many Books, So Little Time.' Discover how books shape our lives, and why there's always room for more books.

Discover how coloring is not just fun - it is an anti-aging secret that boosts relaxation and mindfulness. Explore the benefits of coloring. Coloring can be a godsend for persons with cognitive impairment and their caregivers. See several examples of coloring that you or your loved one can do, no matter what your skill level.

Discover the magic of Family Stories and how they bring family history to life. See why Family Stories are treasures that connect generations and show family quirks and struggles.

Discover why the 'Bucket List' craze might not be for everyone. Explore a unique perspective on aging out of the 'Bucket List' phenomenon.

Discover the beauty of letter writing and its emotional impact. Explore how letter writing connects us deeply, leaving lasting memories.

How small decisions—from a free cat to a chance conversation—can shape an entire life. A reflection on the butterfly effect and life's quiet turns.

Explore the profound reflections on 'Last Time' in life transitions. Discover how 'Last Time' moments shape our journey and the art of letting go.

A lighthearted look at the link between clumsiness and an aging brain. Discover how to improve your proprioceptive system and tackle the 'Clumsy or Aging Brain' dilemma.

A humorous take on aging, statins, and what it really means to be healthy in your 70s and beyond.

To tell or not to tell? From toothpaste lips to chocolate smudges, this lighthearted look at embarrassing moments explores the power of the One Minute Rule.